Although I don't have any medical updates on the girls, I had some thoughts that I wanted to share.
I have been asked the same questions over and over again. I read another mom's blogs that had triplets, and also had two older children, and she had this fabulous idea. Once she had gone out with all 5 kids, she realized that people are interested and want to know "why or how" she had 5 kids. She made a list and posted all the answers on her stroller. I have been thinking about doing the same thing, except figuring out how to post it pre-triplets. Here are some of the things I want to say to all the curious people out there:
- No, I am not due soon. My due date is in January.
- Yes, I am big for 24 weeks. There is a reason. We are having triplets.
- No, I was not on fertility drugs.
- No, it doesn't run in our families.
- Yes, that means it can happen to anyone.
- They are all girls. But they are fraternal.
- Yes, that means I ovulated 3 eggs and that is not normal.
- They are each growing fine, well over a pound, and appear to be very healthy babies.
- Yes, it is OK that I am still out walking around. I have not been told to limit my activities.
- Yes, Leah and Seth are excited about it.
- Yes, I have family close and my in-laws can travel here to help.
- I know you are glad it is me and not you.
- And finally, it was not our intention but we feel very blessed with all 5 of our children.
I make this list out of fun and not because I don't want to answer the questions, its just hard to answer them 15 times a day. Maybe I should print out a handout with all these answers, include this blog website, and hand it out. Of course, I keep telling myself that I won't be out moving around as much in a few weeks, so it won't last forever. I know everyone has good intentions by asking...and I smile and answer the best I can. And I am sure I will continue answering with a smile as long as I can.
We made headway on preparing the house for the girls. Joel and some wonderful friends helped move furniture around on Saturday. In all the movement, Leah has ended up with a queen size bed and a room that she thinks is so "big" girl. She is so happy with her new room. The triplets room is filled with clothes, blankets, and other baby goods. Every time I try to organize, I think I make a bigger mess. It is hard to figure out how to organize for three babies. But yet I have this need to organize...I guess its a huge dose of nesting.
I am feeling pretty good overall. There is some pressure, but nothing I would consider abnormal. I am eating a lot, so that had to be good for the girls. I really tire about 6:00 pm and want to be done for the rest of the day. I still think I am doing pretty good all things considered. My next dr. appointment is Oct 7th. My next ultrasound is Oct. 12. I can't wait to see how much these babies have grown!
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